I really like this girl who was in my psych class last semester. She’s smart,
gorgeous, seems like a nice girl, everything I want. the problem is that i’m in
a relationship, a long-distance one that isn’t going to get closer anytime soon.
and i’m so enamored with this girl that i don’t talk to her, i never see her
anyways.
ah forget it, she’s too good for me..
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January 23rd, 2010 at 5:18 pm
I’ve been in long distance relationships before, and I just have one question for you, would you like your long-distance girl to be crushing after and wanting to go out with other men??
If the answer is no, then you need to forget about this crush and focus on doing more things to solidify your long distance relationship (i.e. communicating a lot more, trying to meet up when you can).
If yes, then you need to speak to your long-distance relationship girl and end it with her or discuss the possibility of having an open relationship and seeing other people.
It sounds like this girl from school seems “perfect” for you, but I got news for you, she’s not. She is merely representing what you are missing in your relationship right now. You need to deal with that first before thinking about pursuing other women.
January 23rd, 2010 at 11:28 pm
Sorry dude, but you’re right. She IS too good for you. No one wants to be with a cheater. Pay more attention to your current girlfriend. If you can’t handle the distance, be a man and break it off.
January 24th, 2010 at 10:14 pm
Are you happy in the LTR? Do you see it going somewhere? If not, then you should work that out before entering into anything with a new woman.
February 6th, 2010 at 4:51 pm
Not cool… I would be crushed if my boyfriend (who is another state, by the way) had feelings like this for a girl in his class. “smart, everything you want”…and the “problem” is your relationship?? Please do your girlfriend a favour and end it if you don’t really want to put effort into being with her. Long-distance relationships can work if both people really want them to.
February 6th, 2010 at 7:52 pm
I’m sure your girlfriend deserves better. Let her go.