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I really like this girl who was in my psych class last semester. She’s smart,
gorgeous, seems like a nice girl, everything I want. the problem is that i’m in
a relationship, a long-distance one that isn’t going to get closer anytime soon.
and i’m so enamored with this girl that i don’t talk to her, i never see her
anyways.

ah forget it, she’s too good for me..

I feel so bitter right now that I wanna cry. I guess it’s my fault for giving
everything I have unconditionally to some loser. Never again.

I wish I could find the strength to finally end this unhealthy relationship. I
wish I wasn’t so attached to you and didn’t love you as much as I do. I’m
ashamed of myself for being weak and unable to get out of something that
doesn’t feel right and is messed up. God I’m such a fool when it comes to
love…

Hi, so here’s my situation……I met someone off of the internet (talked to him
first a number of times on msn/added on facebook & he seemed normal enough) &
we’ve hung out 5 times now. It’s always been at his place, watching movies,
having a few drinks & talking. Last time we actually made out/fell asleep in
the same bed. Up until then nothing had really happened. He then told me that
he wasn’t looking for a serious relationship as he had just gotten out of one
in september, but wants to keep dating me because he has a good time seeing
me.

I guess I’m just looking for an outsider view on what that actually means. i’m
honestly not looking for a serious relationship either since I’m planning on
moving away next fall anyway. I really just want a boyfriend for the next 8
months. He doesn’t seem to want to just sleep with me or else he would have
tried by now. Is it that he wants to be free to see other people and just wants
me as a friend with benefits?

Do you think if I keep seeing him that it could potentially develop into a
relationship?? I’ve never really been in one so I don’t even know what that is
defined by. Please help!