I just found out the girl I thought was my forever friend can’t stand me or my
boyfriend. Doens’t like anything about me, but wants me to go out drinking
with her all the time. What do I do?
confession n. A written or oral statement acknowledging guilt, made by one who has been accused or charged with an offense.
It is the confession, not the priest, that gives us absolution.
— Oscar Wilde
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June 3rd, 2009 at 11:05 am
First of all, was this heard from someone else?? Question where you heard the material from - it could be someone trying to stir up trouble. If she wasn’t your friend, and didn’t like you, I don’t think she would be asking you out for drinks, or asking you out at all.
Now, if this DOES happen to be true, then I wouldn’t mention it. Just politely turn down her requests to go out (being “busy” all the time is a good excuse), and slowly cut her off. If she doesn’t like you, and can’t stand you, there’s no need to continue hanging out with her. Just cut her out of your life slowly, but remain civil to her. Sometimes people drift apart.
June 4th, 2009 at 8:41 am
I found out througha college confession.
June 4th, 2009 at 8:32 pm
Hm.. are you absolutely sure it’s her??
If you are, then like I said, I would just avoid her slowly. If you still want to be her friend and hang out with her - then go ahead and go for drinks. If you and your boyfriend are nice to her, I don’t see what her problem would be…
June 5th, 2009 at 9:09 am
I’m pretty sure. Not absolutely sure. maybe she just had PMS. Should i ask her?
June 5th, 2009 at 3:53 pm
As long as you didn’t say anything bad about her or someone else on this site, then go ahead and ask if it’s her. Just ask her to be straight with you…honesty is the best policy… If you don’t want to do that, you could maybe get another friend to find out how she feels about you or your boyfriend… But like I said, I dont think she would be asking you out all the time if she couldn’t stand you…