This is so cliche its almost sickening, but I have a massive crush on an older
married man. He’s not a professor, however. Rather, he’s a dealer at a nearby
casino. I’ve only seen him three times and I can’t get him out of my head.
And, it’s all his fault - he started it. From the first time I sat down at his
blackjack table the sexual innuendo went flying. From teasing promises to
taking me for a ride in his new car, to arranging a time he should come over
for some late night lovin, the man is driving me wild with his flirtatiousness.
I’m not so sure his wife would approve of our playful, yet overtly sexual,
conversations. The guy is so attractive, witty as hell, and intelligent. Soooo
sexy… I WANT HIM SO BAD.
Here’s the worst part: I have a boyfriend who is amazing to me, and I genuinely
care for him. He’s the sweetest guy I’ve ever been with, the sex is good, but I
still find myself thinking about this other man when I’m with my boy. It’s
awful!
I think I have a thing for unavailable bad boys…they are just so sexy.
I know I should stop flirting with him, but it’s just so much fun. Flirting
isnt harmful to a marriage, is it?
confession n. A written or oral statement acknowledging guilt, made by one who has been accused or charged with an offense.
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It is the confession, not the priest, that gives us absolution.
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It's kind of like being in someone's head while they're praying or thinking about things they'd never say outloud.
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May 3rd, 2009 at 10:42 pm
Get over it. You are acting shallow and are only attracted to this guy because he’s a charmer/sweet-talker. And a news flash for you, a LOT of casino guys are like that - typical flashy guys who make a lot of money. They often train them to do that to keep people around and keep them playing (my bf used to work in a casino).
And you got a great thing with your man now so don’t blow it. If you want to know if flirting is harmful, ask yourself if you would be ok with your boyfriend doing that with other women. And stay away from that casino.
May 3rd, 2009 at 11:33 pm
hahaha…yeah I am being pretty shallow. I dont get many opportunities to be, and its so much fun! Yes, I know a lot of casino dealers are very flirty. Believe me, I’ve flirted with them. They know me by name in that casino.
And I dont think I would mind if my BF would flirt - I would actually be pleasantly surprised. Im the flirty one of the two of us, so I think it would be good if he got back at me with some playful flirting.
May 4th, 2009 at 6:00 pm
You sound like a total douchebag. Your boyfriend is probably a pansy who will stick by you even after you cheat by nailing every bachelor in town. Grow up.
May 4th, 2009 at 11:24 pm
You are overly judgmental as well as incorrect in your assessment: I want to nail married men, not bachelors. Duh.
I would never, ever cheat on my boy. I just wanted to confess my fantasy so I could start to get it out of my system. This is a confessional, not a forum for planning adulterous intentions.
May 5th, 2009 at 2:35 pm
I’m not overly judgemental. You just said you want to nail married men. That still makes you a total douchebag.
And by the way, you don’t have to fuck someone to be a cheater. Going to these casinos and spending so much time flirting with attached men, is still emotional cheating (you said you even think of him when you’re with your boyfriend, that’s more than a simple crush/infatuation). Douche.
May 5th, 2009 at 5:57 pm
The namecalling is really unpleasant and juvenile on here. Can’t we all just get along? :)
May 6th, 2009 at 10:32 pm
“emotional cheating” - I think its you that needs to get a life
May 7th, 2009 at 4:23 pm
?? Get a life? Because he/she doesn’t lust after attached men? It’s the OP that sounds a bit immature. There’s so much more to life than gambling and hitting on married men.