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November 20th, 2008 at 1:38 pm
If you were broken up then it’s not as bad as doing it while you were dating. You’re still a skank though by not telling him.
November 22nd, 2008 at 4:12 pm
Wow. Harsh words, #2. I wouldn’t say she/he is a skank. It’s hard to admit to something you know will hurt someone you love.
November 23rd, 2008 at 1:44 pm
umm #2, yeah she/he is a skank.
November 23rd, 2008 at 7:41 pm
let’s see…she slept with her bf’s roommate…although they were “broken up” at the time…still hasn’t told her bf..probably because she knows he’ll dump her ass…i wouldn’t be with someone who slept with my roommate, even if we were broken up….that’s just wrong, you dont sleep with a bf’s friend…
so yes, that makes her (or him) a skank…
November 23rd, 2008 at 9:26 pm
ah, fuck you both.
YOU try sleeping with your boyfriend’s roomate and then attempt to tell your boyfriend later.
i’m just saying that shit must be hard.
and if they were broken up, then so fucking what? who knows where the OP’s boyfriend stuck his cock while they were on hiatus?
November 24th, 2008 at 4:33 pm
No I will NOT try sleeping with my boyfriend’s roommate. Because I’m not a whore.
And “so what?”…So if that happened to you, and your partner slept with your roommate (while you were broken up), you would still stay with that person?? Both the partner, AND the roommate betrayed their friendship, that’s why it was a wrong situation.
I didn’t say it wasn’t hard…I’m saying she should do the right thing and tell him if she really loves/cares about him.
November 24th, 2008 at 5:24 pm
They weren’t together anymore! She was not obligated to be faithful to a guy she wasn’t even dating at the time. It doesn’t make her a skank or a whore… because she wasn’t in an exclusive relationship with anyone. Yeah it happened to be her boyfriend’s roommate, so what?? They weren’t together, so it doesn’t matter who it was. Should she tell her boyfriend? No, I don’t think so… it just stirs up trouble I think. Why does he need to know her sexual history while they’re broken up?
Regardless… I really think it’s pretty harsh to be calling people names when they come here to vent their confessions. I’d like to think we are a little more mature than that. People will stop posting altogether if they’re afraid people are going to jump down their throats everytime they admit to doing something they’re not proud of in the first place.
November 24th, 2008 at 8:39 pm
I’m not jumping down her throat. I’m taking the boyfriend’s side. Imagine you are in a relationship with someone, and you find out that they slept with your roommate/close friend?? So not only is it gross that your partner did that, the roommate also betrayed the boyfriend.
No, he doesn’t need to know ALL of her sexual history, but if it happened when they were in a brief “off” period, and they have been together for so many years already, AND add the fact it happened to be his roommate, then yes, he has a right to know…
Wouldn’t you want to know if your partner did that??
November 24th, 2008 at 8:40 pm
P.S: I’m not going to hold back what I think for fear that “people will stop posting on here”. They come for anonymous advice and I’m just giving mine. Besides, anything said on this site obviously isn’t personal since I don’t know this person.
November 24th, 2008 at 8:57 pm
HOLY FUCK.
Do tell, #6. When is it, exactly, that one is allowed to have sex with someone else after breaking up with their partner?
At what point do you stop being a judgemental bitch and take them out of the “whore” category and place them into the “socially acceptable and fits in with my narrow fucking vision of reality” category?
Go fuck yourself. And I bet you ARE a whore. A dirty, cunt-dripping whore who fingerfucks herself each night.
Peace.
November 24th, 2008 at 9:00 pm
hahahahah ZING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! lol
November 24th, 2008 at 10:53 pm
I’m not a whore, thanks, I’m engaged. And I can’t imagine sleeping with my boyfriend’s roommate. Ever.
And a roommate is completely different than being with some random stranger from a bar. A roommate is supposed to be a friend, and my whole point (that you completely missed), was that they both are friends to this boyfriend, and what they did was wrong. It’s not the time limit that is the problem, it’s the fact that they both disrespected someone they “cared” about.
And, you are calling ME a judgemental bitch in one second, then calling me a “dirty, cunt-dripping whore who fingerfucks herself each night” the next??? Why don’t you try answering my original question, wouldn’t you want to know if your partner did that, even if you were broken up??
Grow up, honey.
November 24th, 2008 at 10:57 pm
And like I said (in post #9), anything I said on this site obviously isn’t personal since I don’t know the OP at all. It’s an anonymous site. I think what she was did skanky and whorish, and she didn’t seem to have any remorse for what happened based on her original post, all she said was “he has no clue…”, so I put myself in the boyfriend’s situation for a moment. Imagine not knowing something major such as that??
Step away from the computer and stop getting so mad over something which was only my opinion.
November 24th, 2008 at 11:36 pm
Are #10 and #11 the same person? They were posted 3 minutes apart….
November 24th, 2008 at 11:40 pm
#10) If it’s no big deal that she fucked the roommate, then why doesn’t the boyfriend know??
I felt like I had to add something, because I’ve been there. My ex-girlfriend and I used to always break up and get back together. She ended up fucking someone during the break (I didn’t know who it was), but I had a really hard time getting over it. It’s true, they weren’t dating, and neither were we, but it really felt like she had betrayed me.
November 25th, 2008 at 8:24 am
#9, that was my point. People come here for advice, not to be called names.
November 25th, 2008 at 1:46 pm
I agree #16. I think the “whore” person is the same as #10 anyways. She says not to call names, but then calls the person a much worse nasty name?? Just trying to get attention.
November 25th, 2008 at 2:18 pm
everyone needs to shut the hell up. #13, you ARE being judgemental. #10 is being no better. both of you have a point, but i think #13 started it by somehow determining that this person was a whore. your tone was very condescending, and deserved to be shut down. #10 went a bit too far, but ultimately, its only reparation for what your ass started! lol!
November 25th, 2008 at 3:29 pm
Two wrongs don’t make a right, #18. She was entitled to call the person a “whore”, it was just her opinion. When my girlfriend fucked some random guy when we were broken up, you can be damn sure I called her a whore too. It wasn’t right, but I was angry.
You’re talking like a child now, telling people to shut up?? deserved to be shutdown for what? reparation for what your ass started?? oh please… it’s an anonymous website. Even if she did call the OP a whore, I’m sure the OP won’t take much offense to it when it’s coming from an anonymous person.
Come back when this happens to you and tell me it’s no “big deal” because they were broken up. Yes, the OP made a mistake by sleeping with a friend, I’m sure it was hard on her, but now it’s turned into 2 mistakes, by keeping it a secret from someone who she is supposed to be completely honest with.
November 25th, 2008 at 3:31 pm
And by the way, more than one person called the OP a skank (posts #1 and #3), so you were being unfair picking on just one person too.
November 25th, 2008 at 9:24 pm
Just a little deviation (this is a completely new poster to this topic) — I kissed a boy when my boyfriend and I were broken up… we were together for five years… should I let him know, or is a kiss too innocent? Especially if it was with a stranger (to him, not to me)?
November 25th, 2008 at 11:34 pm
I would probably tell my partner…just because I’m that type of person… I’m waaaay too honest about these things…but I wouldn’t make a big deal out of it either…I would say if it was just a kiss, and it didn’t progress further than that, and you felt bad about it, then I wouldn’t tell him…
I guess it depends how YOU feel about it… if your boyfriend kissed someone during that same time frame (or did more), would you want to know?? Maybe you can ask him, and both come clean…
November 26th, 2008 at 8:24 pm
hey, a guy, looks like you’re still carrying a lot of hate for what your g/f did. i guess she was a whore, too, huh?