CollegeConfessional.net

What is your opinion of friends with benefits?

I have an apartment with a girl who I went to high school with. She is beyond
disgusting. She leaves dishes in her room for months until they become moldy,
then bring them out and let them sit for a while once they are moldy. I really
don’t think that she showers and our apartment STINKS. I cannot get the smell
out. I do every single bit of the cleaning and I have discussed this issue with
her, but she still doesn’t lift a finger. She has one friend from that lives in
another county that visits EVERY Thursday night and they are so loud at all
times of the morning. I really don’t want to be rude to her and to sound like
I’m constantly complaining, and I’m really not a loser who can’t get used to
living with another person. I just can’t stand to live in filth. What can I do?
HELPPPPPP!

You know, I’m trying to be a good friend, but when you don’t take my advice,
there’s not much more I can say.

You complain about not being able to find a boyfriend, but you’re sleeping with
and doing “girlfriend” stuff with this man, (shopping, candle-lit bubbles baths,
cuddling), but yet you don’t want to go ahead and ask him for a relationship??
Why the heck would he get into a relationship with you, when you’re already
giving everything to him for free and with no commitments??

If you won’t take my advice then at least stop complaining about your feelings
for him. I think you just want the attention. That’s why you’re still single.

I wish I could tell my mother that I am sorry for all the things I have done.
But she is dead. The gap seems unbridgeable.

I just finished my second day of training as a grocery store cashier. Nobody
introduced themselves to me, showed me around the break room, or anything. I
already hate it and really want to quit. I’ve never hated a job so much. I
think I’ll find a new job, then just quit showing up to my current job, after
collecting my first paycheck. Yes, I’m a horrible person, but I can’t continue
like this.

I just feel really bad because they’ve paid to train me and I really don’t want
to continue to work there.

My gf in college plays on her webcam for me. I notice that around weekend time
she drips white fluid. Is it safe to assume she is screwing someone? She says
she is only interested in me. What can I do to find out? I have asked and she
has denied any cheating.

My room is a huge mess. This only happens when I am depressed. Usually it’s
immaculate and super clean. I also hate taking showers when I am depressed
which is horrible… I have too much stress and I can’t seek professional help
because of the cost and time.

The ironic part is I’m super active and a bubbly person in college and
everybody thinks I am fine but I’m not.

I found a very nice man and have beend dating for 5 months. He is nothing like
what i imagined from a man I would end up dating, but I like him alot and he is
very nice, plus, he understands my medical condition, and is very adept at
helping me. The problem now is we are not intellectual equals, I am working on
my BS, he is struggling for his associates. (He needs my help alot)I am
considering marriage, and he wants to ask, has given me a promise ring, etc.
We cook together, like the same things, but sometimes I don’t like movies/video
games, I kind of find them annoying, and sometimes I want to have an
intellectual conversation which he just can’t do. he can listen, but does he
understand? HOw likely is this to result in marriage, and will it work long
term?

so….now you want to waste more of my time whining about shit that doesn’t
matter…..what matters to me is a passing grade in my class, and your problems
that you share with me are making it so that I can’t study enough. i am sorry
that you have way more issues than I , but can’t you take it to a professional
who is being paid????

OK. I am a student going into a social work related field. I live with women
who have NO clue about life. None. I know how to keep my shit together. I
know how to keep my legs closed. I know how to deal with people that aren’t
good for me. I get them out of my life. period. Why, then, because I am going
into social work do I have to deal with all the damn drama involved with being a
disfunctional female???? I am trying very hard to study and pass my classes, but
every damn time i walk through the door, its gossip, griping and complaining.
constant. I am sorry you girls have problems, really, i am, but why do your
problems have to be MY problems? I am disabled, and trying very hard to get
through school so I can help, i don’t want to help now, but when I am done,
yes. your problems are affecting my grades. my classes cost thousands of
dollars, and I am failing one, don’t you get that?? I don’t have any problems
aside from yours! Everything is going GOOD for me! stop bringing me down, oK?
I just need to be able to come home, go to my room, and crack out my books and
study, I don’t have time to listen to you complain about your loser BF’s that
keep hitting you, hurting you, cheating on you, you keep inviting them back
into your life! they just say “I’m sorry baby” and you start spreading your
legs for them again! you are going to catch something. change your phone
number, your name, anything. slam the door in their face. tell them to fuck
off, or something. For God’s sake, listen to my advice if you are going to
spend all that time bitching about it!