you broke my heart, took my pride, i felt foolish. you’ll never get close to me
again. i still miss and care about you, it’s frustrating.
confession n. A written or oral statement acknowledging guilt, made by one who has been accused or charged with an offense.
It is the confession, not the priest, that gives us absolution.
— Oscar Wilde
It's kind of like being in someone's head while they're praying or thinking about things they'd never say outloud.
— Yaflapkik
January 15th, 2008 at 11:47 am
I’m so sorry you are hurt. I sounds like part of you still cares very much about this person. DO they actually realize that you really care about them? Its surprising how often we assume its understood. Often, its not. Of course, if we’re talking about men…Make that all the time…Just reading about how men and women remember things differently. Very interesting and it does explain a lot!
January 15th, 2008 at 2:50 pm
i care very much, tho i don’t know what they think. we do think differently from men so this is probably something better left unsaid.
January 15th, 2008 at 3:30 pm
If anyone ever figures out how to bridge that communication gap, they will be doing humanity a huge favor. I actually think men feel a similar range of emotions, but do a good job of masking it. Maybe their minds just compartmentalize better then ours. I know I’ve seen men get hurt, but they sure seem to snap out of it quickly, don’t they? If the basic needs are met, they carry on very well. I know what you mean about leaving things unsaid, but what if he feels as you do. Just doesn’t know how to open up about it??? Plus, they have a self preservation mechanism that we don’t seem to have.
February 7th, 2008 at 8:44 pm
These foolish games are tearing me apart.