I hate waiting for men to call/email me back after a date…
I have work to do, midterms to study for…and all I can think about is, “did
he have a great time?? I know I did…” It’s only been a day or so since I’ve
emailed him saying I had a nice time…and I’m sure I’m over-reacting, but why
do I let these stupid trivial things bother me so much…
I am writing for a friend. She went to a professors office hours because she
didnt do good on an exam and wanted to ask what she could do to do better. She
is in the business school and didnt want a bad grade (D)on her transcripts. The
teacher said, “Its a hard class and sometimes you just dont get it. But not to
worry, because pretty girls always get good jobs.” And then he rubbed her leg.
It made her really uncomfortable and she doesnt know what to do. She isnt doing
good in the class and doesnt really want to go to his office hours again. Any
advice would help. Should she go the student services???
I feel like a failure right now.
Five/four classes is considered a full course-load, and I’m in four. I’m
falling behind in one of my classes, though, so I’m considering dropping it so
it doesn’t bring down my GPA and hurt my chance of scholarhips. But if I drop
one class, I’m considered a part-time student and I automatically lose the $750
scholarship I currently have.
It’s like a lose-lose situation, financially. I feel like I’m going to do badly
in this class. The essay worth half the total grade is due in less than two
weeks and I don’t even have a focused thesis. It’s like my options are: A -
drop the class and lose the scholarship.
or B - stay in the class and lose the scholarship anyway.
Fuck.
I’ve never had a girlfriend at all… or been on a date.
I don’t really know why though. I’m not particularly awkward, and I have good,
dedicated friends. I was pretty chubby in high school so I was afraid to ask
girls out, but by college I slimmed down a lot and I’ve been told that I’m
“cute”… which isn’t handsome but certainly isn’t ugly. I’m really shy and
though.
Some girls have had little crushes on me, and I’ve had crushes on girls, but
they never aligned. I suppose I never gave any girl with a crush on me a chance
though.
And I don’t really feel like liking someone anymore. It’s been well over year
since I’ve had butterflies in my stomach for someone.
I hope I find love someday… or even a date, or a kiss….
my roommate can’t cook with a microwave and burned up popcorn it smelt up the
entire dorm and the hallway. I was pissed because it’s my microwave. after 1
1/2 of burnt popcorn all over the microwave I cleaned it (even though it was
not my mess). It won’t completely clean off and I am pissed about that. I took
my microwave and hid it in my car. Now she can’t cook. HAHA.
I need help with a female friend of mine (I’m female too)- let’s call her Tina
to make it easier.
To basically make a long story short, Tina has very strong lesbian feelings for
another female co-worker of hers. Now, she thinks I don’t know this, I found
out through a mutual friend (whom Tina was ALSO hitting on, and who isn’t gay
either).
The problem is that Tina’s mood swings and attitude are getting unbearable.
She gets extremely mad/angry and jealous whenever her co-worker talks to
someone else, or makes plans with others instead of her. She even spoke to me
of a dream where she murdered this guy who was talking to her co-worker one day
at their job.
She’s making me and our mutual friend very uncomfortable. We’ve tried speaking
to her, and to tell her not to bother with this co-worker anymore, since she
doesn’t want to seem to be much of a friend (she always breaks plans with us,
etc). Tina hasn’t come out to me or anyone else, so I haven’t brought up the
gay issue with her (and I really don’t care if she is a lesbian, I’m bi
myself)…
But I don’t think the gay feelings are the problem. It’s her mood swings and
her inability to seriously let go of these feelings for this girl. This has
been going on for about a year now, and it’s gotten to the point where I’m
breaking plans with her, she’s making me that uncomfortable by moping and
getting so angry when we hang out.
I love her, she’s my dear friend, but I really am frustrated with what to do.
I’m seriously starting to wonder if the person behind this page is some kind of
wacko who just loves to read about other peoples dirty secrets…
Go Chewbacca, go!
I’m SO sick of school right now. I used to love it, but now I can’t even stand
to think about my classes. I hate midterms.
I think that some of the people responding to posts on here are getting a little
judgemental. Obviously, the person posting knows they are doing something wrong.
It doesnt help by critizing them and responding rudely. I dont know, its just
the feeling I am getting. Be nice or go away!
confession n. A written or oral statement acknowledging guilt, made by one who has been accused or charged with an offense.
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It is the confession, not the priest, that gives us absolution.
— Oscar Wilde
It's kind of like being in someone's head while they're praying or thinking about things they'd never say outloud.
— Yaflapkik
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