I still have all the voice messages you left on my cellphone when we were still
together and I listen to them every day. It’s the only way I hear your voice
anymore. Brings me to tears every time.
confession n. A written or oral statement acknowledging guilt, made by one who has been accused or charged with an offense.
It is the confession, not the priest, that gives us absolution.
— Oscar Wilde
It's kind of like being in someone's head while they're praying or thinking about things they'd never say outloud.
— Yaflapkik
August 1st, 2007 at 1:24 pm
You should think about deleting those messages… they’re probably doing you more harm than good.
Deleting them will force you to move past the relationship.
You can do it.
August 1st, 2007 at 4:58 pm
agreed. the other person has probably long since moved on, you’re just harming yourself.
August 1st, 2007 at 8:19 pm
I agree as well. Deleting the messages will probably help you move on. Just take a deep breath, delete them, and try and move on.
August 1st, 2007 at 10:23 pm
chuck the phone in the ocean. you might feel better.
August 2nd, 2007 at 1:29 am
I did the same thing. I deleted them about a month ago, and I’ve been happier since then. I’ve been able to get over him without the constant reminder of his voice on my phone.
August 3rd, 2007 at 9:08 am
the best way to get over someone is to get under someone!! seriously…it works! delete the messages/emails/phone numbers/msn contacts and don’t look back. you’ll be better off
August 3rd, 2007 at 5:13 pm
Oh, right. The best way to get over love is to screw someone. I keep forgetting that. Penis cures all, eh, #6?
I agree that you should delete the messages, but do it in your own time. Further, sleeping with people to try and get over someone is like drinking booze to forget your troubles. Except you can get an STD.
August 3rd, 2007 at 10:24 pm
Today is 7 months for me and I finally deleted his very last message… man it felt good. I hope you too can find that satisfaction.
August 4th, 2007 at 3:08 pm
hahaha I love how everytime sex gets mentioned - someone always pipes up with “nice job, you’ll get an STD”… I meant you don’t have to go out and nail every guy you see with no protection, what I meant was it’s time for this person to move on and take charge of their own life. Meeting someone new and thrilling will also help to get over them, but you won’t be receptive to a new relationship if you still have the ex’s messages on your phone. Good luck to you and be strong. :)