CollegeConfessional.net

Getting rejected sucks big-time. I’m trying to keep busy and I have a
lot of things that I really need to get done, but I can’t stop thinking about
him.

He basically told me liked me but chose another girl that he’s known for
longer, after thinking for a while about it. We just met so I guess he was just
testing the waters. I appreciate the fact that he was very honest and sincere
about it, the last jerk wasn’t, but it still hurts a lot.

I have a sexual disorder that makes me crave sex ALLLL the time. The only thing
that cures the symptoms is a mild antidepressant. That is the only reason I take
the pills. I would much rather have a husband that could give me sex 5 or 6
times a day, so I don’t have to take medicine. And, I am a body builder, so my
husband would be very happy. But I am single, female, and sexually frustrated.
The man that I know could satisfy me is in the middle of the ocean until the end
of summer.

….Your body language tells me that you like me…it is kinda cute… I just
want you to know that I see you too…

Reading the drama about chloe has gotten me thinking about my professor crush.
He’s taking some time off for a while (nothing to do with me, as far as I
know). Unlike chloe, I’ve never told him about my feelings, but I’ll bet my
body language gave me away. I developed a few new hobbies to keep my mind
occupied, but every cute guy reminds me of him. I guess I’m looking for coping
mechanism. Please don’t be too harsh on me.

I have all these exciting things going on and I don’t have anyone else to
tell… I’m doing very well in school. I can’t believe how much I love
college because I didn’t thrive much in high school. I’m doing a summer
internship in my field and every day I’m surprised at my success and at the
same time nervous that I won’t be able to keep it up. I have my first big
project due next week and this time it’s not for a grade but for a result that
will have a measurable impact on the community. Am I ready for this?

I just finished my first summer exam. Ahhhhh it feels so good to get to put this
textbook away for good.

I’m done. You lie about stupid things while we’re “casual”, what will you lie
about if it got serious?? I’m not going to compete with other girls. I’m a
catch and I know it. Any guy would be lucky to have me. I don’t have the energy
to reform another playboy and regardless of what you say, you reputation will
always proceed you. Sorry. It was fun while it lasted.

I hate being single.

I pretend that it doesn’t bother me, but deep down it does. I just miss being
with someone, the late night conversations, the intimacy. My last relationship
went for 2+ years and I ended it last year. It wasn’t right for me, and I stayed
with him partly because I was scared to be alone.

I’ve been told I’m extremely cute & attractive, and I’ve been on a few first
dates recently (but with no repeats), and a few guys have stood me up in the
last few months. This makes me feel like I’ve done something wrong.

I don’t want to be “one of those” women who needs a man to feel validated. I’m
doing amazing in school and have a wonderful career path ahead of me. Yet I
find myself turning more and more into that everyday… how do I stop this
cycle??

I know I’m not perfect, but I don’t deserve this treatment from you. You act so
immaturely at times, but you’re not a teenager anymore, and I can’t understand
how you can keep hurting someone who loves you so much without even caring. If
this is what I think it is, then I don’t think I can forgive you this time. I
am through forgiving.

Chloe wants you to know she replied to the question below… if ur still around
the forum.. right back. I appreciate the added insight.