I’m extremely confused and need help. I have a TA 2 yrs older than me (the
class is just finished now) and I asked him recently if he wanted to go for
coffee/drink sometime after class, he just kind of nodded but didn’t really say
yes or no, so I figured he wasn’t all that interested and didn’t want to
embarass me.
I kind of ‘ignored’ him after that, even when he always waves at me and gives
me a really weird smile when he sees me (but not to others in the class).
In the final class the other day, he was acting much different than usual,
trying to get closer to me, standing next to me and staring at me for long
periods for no reason, giving me that bright smile and having his eyes light up
again. He said ‘bye!’ to me first as I was leaving and not to anyone else
(there were a lot of students there)
my problem is, he was joking about how another lady “liked him, but it was
pretty sad, he felt sorry for her and it would never happen” - when I asked
why, he hesitated for a long time, looked uncomfortable and mumbled “I dont
think my gf would like that”… I was under the impression he was single - I’ve
heard him say before to another girl “oh is your friend hot? send her this
way!”
What is up with this guy and and the mixed messages?? Did he lie about the gf
thing because I made him uncomfortable with the question about the other
lady??
Maybe he does likes me but has a gf?? I’m just wondering if I should pursue
this further (give him my phone #) or just let it be and try to forget about
him… (sorry for the long post)
I left the perfect woman. I thought I was too young to be that serious, but I
have come to regret it every single day of my life. I hurt her so much when I
left, she won’t have anything to do with me. The is no one as interesting, good
hearted or funny. Everyone just leaves me feeling more lonely for the one I
lost. People tell me how smart I am, but I just feel like a complete idiot. Why
did I listen to my friends who told me I could do better? I will never find a
better woman. I am so sorry.
If you know that your friend is being cheated on by his girlfriend with his
roommate, should you tell him?
Me and my boyfriend have sex sometimes and I dont really think its all that
great. NO ORGASM EVER!! WHYYYY???
“…lovers turn back into strangers while cradled in the arms of Time”.
Why do little things like that set off thoughts of you in my head? It so long
ago, and I was the one who made the decision to leave. I’ve never thought it
was the wrong decision, but that doesn’t stop my mind and my body thinking of
you every day.
Memories do not fade, they preserve the best and the worst. My memories of you
are an inseparable knot of love and pleasure and pain. I do enjoy being in love
again, but you were the first and I will never forget.
confession n. A written or oral statement acknowledging guilt, made by one who has been accused or charged with an offense.
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It is the confession, not the priest, that gives us absolution.
— Oscar Wilde
It's kind of like being in someone's head while they're praying or thinking about things they'd never say outloud.
— Yaflapkik
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