I make it sound like I’d choose one night of passion with two or three certain
people and give up a lifetime chance with my significant other (give it up due
to fidelity issues); however, this is not the case. I have never cheated and
would never cheat on anyone. I do this only because he is so aloof and
unemotional every other second of the day… and because he always talks about
all the girls he wants to bang. I want him to feel something and show me he’s
feeling something. Even if that something is negative.
confession n. A written or oral statement acknowledging guilt, made by one who has been accused or charged with an offense.
It is the confession, not the priest, that gives us absolution.
— Oscar Wilde
It's kind of like being in someone's head while they're praying or thinking about things they'd never say outloud.
— Yaflapkik
September 26th, 2006 at 7:39 am
You can’t change another person, you can only change how you respond to them. I would take this as a sign to get out. I don’t know you, but I can say you deserve better than this. Good luck.
September 26th, 2006 at 7:57 am
I agree 100%. You can’t make your boyfriend want you more. It sounds like he wants to be with other people. If a man is talking to you about being with other women, it would be best to tell him to go away. Find someone who wants fidelity as much as you do. If you stay with your current boyfriend, he will hurt you. This is not a situation that can lead to a happy outcome for you. Its very mean for him to tell you he wants other women. His moodiness is because he wants out. Give him this one last thing. You DO deserve better.
September 26th, 2006 at 9:50 am
It isn’t worth it to stay with someone like this if fidelity is important to you. It will always be a disappointement to you when you realize (time & time again) that this is not the type of guy who remains faithful. I’d get out now & raise my standards for next time-you deserve better.
September 26th, 2006 at 9:58 pm
This man will not change. Either he isn’t ready to be in a real relationship or he hasn’t found what hes looking for. Its time you found a better fit.
September 27th, 2006 at 4:33 am
drop him like a hot rock and don’t look back.
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